Susan has been asked by close friends and family who are aware of the affair what drove a successful, attractive, intelligent woman to start and continue a relationship with a married man for nearly three years?
When a married man courts a woman, he takes a huge risk—a risk that reveals he wants her very much.
Your own survival is crucial, and if you do happen to fall in love with a married man, there are several hard truths you need to know. The needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.
His family will always come first, and that includes his wife. The beginning of an affair is romantic and naughty at the same time.
Take Lisa, a young, attractive, smart, successful woman from a major metropolitan area.We have shared wonderful moments, we spent nights and even weekends together…Sex was important, but that was not the most important thing between us… Feeling loved by another man has helped me being more self-confident.His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.And most single men confess they are initially very careful not to appear too interested, lest they find themselves headed for a commitment they're not ready for.