Display your strengths Women of all ages are attracted to men with confidence, strength and life experience.
Younger women in particular need and seek guidance.
Only two men out of the hundreds that contacted me stated their name, signed their note or said a few words about themselves. There is not an easy way to respond to this, much less—to make a conversation out of it.
Women feel safe when you introduce yourself—and safety is important for a woman. Meeting on a dating site leaves out the information that all of our senses could provide if we were to meet in person—voice, body language, the way we speak or look at each other, the ease with which we communicate. The easiest way to start a conversation is to be interested in her. Show attention by asking her about something she cares about.
In our interview, I asked Lisa this question directly and she gave me a simple answer.
Single men in their 60s are looking for a woman who is feminine and is willing to help them feel like a man.
I did not list tons of interests and activities I enjoy. I was surprised by the number of men specifying that they are looking for a relationship, and not just dating.
They have been there and done that and have seen more of the world than you have.
Many women, including myself, spent most of their lives competing with men – at work, in social situations and even at home.
Now, as we reach our 60s, it’s difficult to put our swords down and just relax a bit. Lisa and I also discuss the perception that men only want to date younger women.
Chances are they are wiser and smarter than you in some things so learn from them and do not belittle their knowledge or their experience.2.
Focus on the things you have in common There will be many things you have in common with your older guy- that is why you two are dating. Do not let age get in the way and become a distraction.